Thanks for letting me know guys, I guess I feel a little more at ease with this now. We were already married and have been for a few years now so I am hoping that works in our favor since I think after the 2 or 3 year period of marriage he is considered my immediate relative. Or so I read, it confuses me. lol

Back on to the topic of motivation...

I am starting to find motivation to get healthier in the way I have been feeling this year. It started off rocky. Anxiety, kidney stone, skin issues flaring up, sleep problems... I think it is a wake up call that I am getting older and need to take better care of my body.