Thread: Some New YouTube Drama...

So I figured it was worth posting this since it wasn't virus-related and something that just happened.

A YouTuber by the name of CallMeCarson was dating who is now being labeled a "Twitch Thot" Katerino.

I don't know much about them at all, never even heard of them before this but Kate was dating someone while she entered into a relationship with Carson and she was dating both of them at the same time for awhile. Then she slept with someone named Fritz(?) who outed her I guess.

She is using a mental illness to excuse being a cheater which to me, is just wrong. She knew what she was doing. She likely enjoyed the attention.



I am not big into YouTube drama but it is something other than the virus to discuss so I wanted to post it.

Thoughts on this?

She just has that "i'm a cheater and i'll eventually blame others for it" look. On this first round she's gonna blame depression, but next time she's gonna make up stuff about one of the guys involved and why she did it to save herself. Then she'll say she has BPD. They always suddenly get BPD. And she'll get away with it because she's cute.

Before anyone calls me out on it (because i've been open about it, even on in another thread or two on here) i've been to legal brothels in Japan, even while I was dating and engaged so depending on your sensibilities I'm a cheater too. I see a difference between dating two people at once secretly & potentially planning a future with a different partner and going out with the guys though. In Japan, getting deli-heru or going to a girl's bar is like going to a strip club is here. It's not quite at the "cheating" tier, I just got a playful punch in the arm from my wife when she figured out where we had been and then we all laughed it off. Protip: if a guy went to Osaka with his friends, his dick went inside SOMETHING during that trip.

Perhaps I'm making excuses just like she is or y'all think i'm a terrible person now too but at least I knew that nobody would be emotionally damaged by my actions. That's the only reason I don't go all out against stuff like this when so-and-so popular person online gets caught up in a cheating scandal. The sneakiness and backstabbing nature of what she did is what makes it bad, in my opinion. As far as this topic goes, I'm in a "glass house" so to speak, so I won't throw too many stones.

I have more respect for people who cheat and own up to it. Her using mental illness, depression, whatever else is a copout. I know more guys tend to do this sort of thing than gals but it just somehow seems worse when a woman does it. I guess because it is common knowledge men are more sexually driven than women so the thought of a woman being with 2 or even 3 guys at once is not common... But I think in today's world, women are equal to men now when it comes to cheating.

Originally Posted by KorinKitty

I have more respect for people who cheat and own up to it. Her using mental illness, depression, whatever else is a copout. I know more guys tend to do this sort of thing than gals but it just somehow seems worse when a woman does it. I guess because it is common knowledge men are more sexually driven than women so the thought of a woman being with 2 or even 3 guys at once is not common... But I think in today's world, women are equal to men now when it comes to cheating.

Women cheat a lot more at an emotional level than men do. I don't think men are conflicted with their feelings as often. I was always able to separate my genuine relationship from one-off things during a guy's night out. I wasn't going back to some girl's apartment or giving out my phone number. I wasn't routinely meeting up with someone from work or flirting with any of my female friends. In fact I knew I'd never see these women again.

I think what makes it appear worse when a woman does it is that she's usually being provided for. My wife works part time but that's by choice. If she decides that she doesn't want to work and just wants to play Animal Crossing all day, then that's fine and she can get away with it. I don't have that freedom. If someone breaks into the house at night, which of us do you think is expected to go downstairs in the dark and have a shootout? My point is, while the sexes have equal rights & opportunities under the law, there remain additional expectations and responsibilities on my part and I'm okay with that as long as I can get away with a little special treatment as well. I've taken responsibility for another adult's safety and well-being. If it makes me a Level 100 turbo-sexist bigot misogynist in some people's eyes then I'll just have to live with that. Guys have been doing this for thousands of years to cope with the stress of providing for a family, and it makes me love my wife even more because she leaves it unspoken and doesn't use it as leverage against me.

Anyhow, that's my rationalization for why there's a double-standard and why I think it's okay in certain cases.